You will get the Job. Wherever you are at this moment, quietly bow your head, breathe and say to yourself, “I will get the job. Brain, understand this.”
Go ahead and say it, even though it may sound silly. Studies from the University of Kansas and the University of Alaska, Anchorage found that children who were talked to the most have strikingly higher IQ’s than children whose parents didn’t talk to them very much. Try 150 IQ versus 75! One of simplest ways to raise intelligence is to talk.
In the same way, words still carry weight. Oh, they sure do. Just think of the last time a family member cussed you out; or a stranger decided to whisper obscene profanity and give some sign language to you as your were driving in your car. You may not have heard the “words” but you felt them.
“Life and Death are in the power of the tongue!” Proverb.
Coaching individuals in this market is the BEST! Why? Because I get to separate the “wheat” in one’s life from the “chaff” that has been growing as you await the job of your dreams.
Now you may be saying to me, “Coach Ron, I’ll take any job.” Well, that what we must correct. That’s been the problem for most people their entire life. They have been saying those words. They heard their parents, teachers, mentors—whoever—using just that sort of negative language. What I want you to understand is that Words do have power! They have molded and fashioned you in a way. You may be paying for negative words heavily right now. I hear people all the time saying things like, “I’m just trying to make ends meet,” or, “I really don’t want to do this, but…”
The answer:
STOP SAYING WHAT OTHERS SAY ABOUT YOU!
START SAYING WHAT YOU WANT
Speak about the job you want. This is not magic trick, it’s a neurological thing. In short, your brain, much like an infant’s, adapts to words. Words frame your thinking and thinking is what you speak. What you think about is what you speak about. So in order to get the job of your dreams, you better be thinking on things that bring you the results you want. It’s that simple.
And, the words you speak are a matter of heart. Whatever is in your heart in abundance is what is going to come out of your mouth. Fill your heart with the truth about your passions! Your love for people, skill sets, passions, likes, flavors, music—all those things you start to dance over when your heart is touched.
As I coach companies, I advocate that employers pick out the wheat from the chaff. I coach them to discern between employees that are there for a “pay-check” versus those who have had a “heart-check.” Once an employer hears words come out of your mouth that have been touched by your heart, the JOB is YOURS!
Your assignment: Get a tape recorder or use your phone to record yourself talking. Do it in various settings. You will be shocked what comes out of your mouth. Life and even death. Next month More on get the Job of your dreams. Email me. You’ve got what it takes- GO FOR IT!
Ron Kardashian
Ron Kardashian is a life coach, fitness expert, educator, conference speaker, author, national television and radio personality, and NSCA-certified strength and conditioning coach. Kardashian was one of America’s first life coaches. In 1994, he founded Kardashian Life Coaching & Personal Training and has since inspired hundreds to reach their full physical, mental and spiritual potential.
Kardashian has been twice nominated as Personal Trainer of the Year. He has been an honored speaker for the National Strength and Conditioning Association. Considered a “coach’s coach,” he has empowered executives to operate at peak performance; personally, professionally, and most important , spiritually.
Ron also heads a 501 (c) 3 non-profit corporation that is relentless in its efforts of bringing optimal health to people of all walks of life. This organization’s mission is to fight obesity and related diseases on a global scale. Across the globe, Kardashian’s unique approach has garnered amazing results, making him a powerful, voice of change for professional athletes, CEOs, political leaders, and clergymen of every age, religion, and creed. Ron lives in California with his beautiful wife, Tia, and two children.
